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tori

th​e Sex Coach

Tori Swanson

Unlock Confidence &

Embrace Connection

I’m a Sex and Relationship Coach, specializing in helping men ​and masculine-presenting people re-enter the dating scene, ​improve relationships, and achieve satisfying connections ​through practical, hands-on experiences. My approach ​includes role-playing real-life scenarios, communication ​exercises, and exploring body language and touch to build ​confidence and intimacy skills. I also provide immediate ​feedback and real-world assignments to reinforce learning. ​Additionally, I work with individuals, couples, and groups of all ​genders and sexualities to explore kink and BDSM safely, ​and I support sex workers in establishing strong boundaries, ​building confidence, and ensuring personal safety through ​tailored, interactive methods.

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FREE SESSIONS UNTIL THE END OF SEPTEMBER!

Certified Expertise

With specialized training in ​transformative methodologies, I am ​committed to providing expert

guidance on your journey.

Personalized Care

My empathetic approach ensures a ​deeply personalized experience, placing ​your well-being at the core of every ​coaching session.

Rewarding Results

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I focus on creating positive, lasting ​change in your life.

Hello, I am Tori!

Your Trusted Sex Coach

I am here for you! Perhaps you find yourself at a crossroads in your ​intimate life, feeling stuck, wrestling with self-doubt, or ​overwhelmed by uncertainty. The desire for deeper connections and ​fulfilling relationships is undeniable, but there's a lingering question: ​"Am I truly enough? Can I turn my desires into reality?"

Yes! You are more than enough!

Your desires for fulfilling intimacy are not just attainable but destined ​to blossom! Having navigated similar paths, I understand the ​complexities of personal growth. As your coach, I offer more than ​guidance; I extend a supportive hand to help you transform challenges ​into triumphs, uncover your strengths, and manifest your dreams into ​a vibrant reality.

Why Trust Me?

I bring a wealth of knowledge and experience to guide you on your journey towards deeper ​intimacy and fulfilling connections. With a commitment to confidentiality, respect, and ​inclusivity, I create a safe space for exploration and growth.

My Life’s Story

My journey into the realm of sex and relationship coaching is deeply rooted in my diverse and enriching experiences within the sex work industry and my extensive academic background. For five transformative years, I worked as a sex worker and dominatrix, running my own dungeon. This period allowed me to develop a profound understanding of human desires, boundaries, and the intricate dynamics of power and intimacy.


Academically, I hold a Bachelor's degree in Psychology from Kansas State University and am currently a student in a Masters and Family Therapy Program in Texas. I am also in the Sex Therapy Certification Program through Sexual Health Alliance These educational foundations equipped me with a robust understanding of human behavior, relationships, and therapeutic practices.


Driven by a passion to help others explore and fulfill their intimate desires, I began my training at the Somatica® Institute in San Francisco. This innovative and experiential approach to sex and relationship coaching resonated with my own experiences and aspirations. I was inspired to open a practice dedicated to helping clients understand their desires and explore their options for intimacy, whether with partners or themselves.


Today, I am proud to work as a Somatica®-trained sex and relationship coach, guiding clients through practical, hands-on experiences to achieve fulfilling connections and sexual satisfaction. My journey is continually evolving, and I am excited to be taking my certification exam in September 2024. My mission is to empower individuals to embrace their desires, build confidence, and create deeply satisfying relationships.



I believe in the transformative power of intimacy and connection. Every individual has the capacity to overcome challenges and create the fulfilling sexual and relational experiences they desire. As your sex coach, I am honored to walk beside you on this journey of self-discovery, offering guidance, support, and a roadmap to your most authentic and satisfying self. I want your intimate life to reflect the brilliance within you.


My Core Values

My Services

Areas of expertise

Unlock the potential for positive change with my personalized coaching ​services designed to guide you through various aspects of life.

Relationship Coachin​g

Assisting men and ​masculine-presenting ​people to re-enter the ​dating scene, improve ​relationships, and buildsatisfying connections.


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Confidence Building​

Strategies and exercises ​to boost self-esteem and ​confidence in social and ​intimate settings.

BDSM & Kink

Guidance on exploring ​BDSM and kink safely and ​consensually, including ​scene negotiation, safety ​techniques, and sensation ​play.

Co​mmunication Skills

Enhancing verbal and non-​verbal communication to ​express desires, set ​boundaries, and read social ​cues effectively.

Sex Worker Suppo​rt

Specialized coaching for ​sex workers to establish ​strong boundaries, build ​confidence, and create ​fulfilling careers.

Somatic Metho​d

Utilizing experiential and ​interactive methods to ​help clients understand ​their desires and achieve ​fulfilling intimate ​relationships.

Are you ready to take the first ​step towards a better you?

How it works

The 4 Easy Steps

1


Discovery Session

We'll delve into your desires, challenges, and ​the vision you have for your intimate life. This ​session lays the groundwork for a tailored ​coaching plan designed specifically for you.

2


Tailored Coaching Plan

Based on your unique needs, we'll develop a ​plan that focuses on enhancing intimacy, ​building confidence, and achieving fulfilling ​sexual and relational experiences. This plan ​serves as your roadmap to satisfaction and ​connection.

3


Weekly Coaching Sessions

Dive into targeted discussions and practical ​strategies. These sessions provide a ​consistent space for growth and actionable ​steps towards your intimacy and relationship ​goals.

4


Ongoing Support System

Beyond our regular sessions, benefit from ​ongoing support and reflection. Periodic check-​ins, progress assessments, and unlimited email ​support ensure you stay on track and navigate ​challenges with confidence.

Sliding Scale Pricing System

I offer sliding scale pricing to ensure my services are accessible to a wider range of clients, while maintaining fairness for both of us. A sliding ​scale means that fees adjust according to your income and financial situation, allowing individuals who may not be able to afford the standard ​rates to still receive the support they need. However, it’s important to note that sliding scale does not mean free.



Sliding scale services are available for clients paying directly for sessions rather than through an insurance company. This flexibility makes it ​easier for individuals to access specialized services like sex coaching, which is typically not covered by traditional insurance.



Sliding scale fees are negotiated between the therapist and the client, with the rate "sliding" up or down based on each person’s income, ​financial situation, and number of dependents. My sliding scale rates range from $50 to $150 per session, depending on your average annual ​income. For example, if you make $75,000 a year, the suggested rate is $75 per session. However, I trust my clients to choose a fair rate ​based on their financial reality, and no proof or explanation is required.



Sliding scale fees are particularly beneficial for those who must pay out of pocket for specialized services, such as sex coaching. It allows ​clients to receive the care and support they need without the financial burden of standard, one-size-fits-all rates, making personal growth and ​intimacy coaching more attainable.



For therapists, sliding scale fees provide a way to support a diverse range of clients who may not be able to afford regular rates, while still ​maintaining a sustainable business. This approach enables me to offer high-quality care to people from various financial backgrounds, without ​compromising the quality of the services I provide.

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My Programs

Crafted with precision, designed to meet you where you are ​and guide you to where you want to be.

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Foundations of Intimacy

and Confidence

4 Weeks

This 4-week program is designed to ​provide clients with foundational ​skills for improving intimacy and ​self-confidence. Each week, you’ll ​receive a 60 minute session where ​we focus on practical strategies ​tailored to your specific needs, ​whether that’s building confidence, ​improving communication, or ​addressing sexual health concerns. ​In addition to the weekly sessions, ​you’ll benefit from two 15-minute ​check-ins between meetings, ​allowing you to stay on track and ​get extra guidance when needed. ​You’ll also receive a personalized ​action plan with exercises tailored ​to your goals, along with bonus ​resources such as worksheets, ​ebooks, and guided exercises to ​enhance your progress. For added ​value, I offer ongoing email and text ​support to answer questions and ​provide encouragement between ​sessions. To make it even more ​worthwhile, you’ll receive a discount ​on a future session or package if ​booked within six months.

$400

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Building Long-Term Intimacy and ​Personal Growth

12 Weeks

The 12-week program is perfect for ​clients looking to make long-term ​improvements in their relationships, ​confidence, or intimacy. Over the ​course of 12 weekly sessions, you’ll ​dive deep into areas like ​relationship dynamics, ​communication, and sexual ​exploration. You’ll also have access ​to two bonus 30-minute check-ins ​to provide additional support ​whenever you need it. As part of ​this program, you’ll gain exclusive ​access to webinars or workshops ​covering specialized topics such as ​BDSM exploration or enhancing ​intimacy. You’ll receive a ​personalized coaching toolkit filled ​with exercises, journal prompts, and ​meditations to help you progress ​outside of our sessions, along with ​a customized progress tracker to ​monitor your growth and adjust ​goals as necessary every 4 weeks. ​All program materials—including ​worksheets and resources—are ​yours to keep for life, and you’ll ​enjoy priority booking for future ​coaching sessions, plus discounts ​on extended programs.

$1,200

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Transformative

Intimacy Coaching

6 Months

The 6-month program offers a ​transformative experience for ​clients committed to making long-​lasting changes in their personal ​and intimate lives. This program ​includes 24 weekly 60 minute ​sessions, along with four bonus 30-​minute sessions that can be used ​at any time for extra support. You’ll ​receive a VIP coaching experience ​with direct access to me via text or ​voice messaging for any urgent ​questions or needs. Additionally, ​you’ll have exclusive access to ​quarterly virtual retreats, where ​we’ll explore advanced topics such ​as sexual confidence, emotional ​intimacy, and communication. I’ll ​provide personalized somatic ​exercises with feedback to help you ​integrate these techniques into ​your daily life, fostering deeper ​mind-body connection. You’ll also ​gain access to a custom resource ​library filled with premium content, ​including webinars, ebooks, and ​video guides. After the program, ​you’ll get a free maintenance ​session to ensure your progress ​stays on track, and you’ll enjoy ​priority scheduling for future ​sessions and programs.

$2,400

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FAQ - Frequent Questions

1.

How does coaching work?

Coaching involves personalized sessions, goal-setting, and ​strategies for growth. It's a collaborative process where a ​coach guides you toward achieving your aspirations and ​overcoming challenges.


2.

How long are coaching sessions?

Sessions typically last 60 minutes, ensuring ample time ​for discussion, goal-setting, and personalized guidance. ​The duration provides a focused and impactful coaching ​experience.


3.

Is coaching only for specific goals?

Absolutely not, sex coaching is versatile. Whether i​t's enhancing intimacy, exploring kink and BDSM,​ or supporting sex workers in their careers, coaching ada​pts to your unique desires and goals. It's about empower​ing you to thrive in your sexual and relational journe​y​..


4.

What makes your coaching unique?

My coaching is tailored, empathetic, and results-driven. I ​focus on your individual needs, providing a holistic ​approach to personal development, career growth, and ​overall well-being.


5.

Can I choose multiple focuses?

Absolutely! My coaching is flexible to address various ​aspects. We'll collaborate to create a tailored plan that al​igns with your multifaceted goals.


6.

How often should I schedule?

Frequency depends on your needs. Weekly sessions are ​common initially, then we adjust based on progress. ​Consistency enhances the coaching impact, ensuring ​sustained growth and development.


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email:

tori@torithesexcoach.com

Phone:

(737) 267 4647

Austin, TX

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